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Hey Im Nathan!

Last active: over 12 months ago
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Last active: over 12 months ago

Nathan
Standard Member

31 Jersey City, New Jersey, United States

Male / Single / ID: 390481

Seeking Female 19 - 34 For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

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Quick Overview

Nathan

He's Looking For

Education:

Bachelors Degree
Any

Have children:

No
Any

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Occasionally smoke
Any

Religion:

Christian
Any

Occupation:

Artistic / Creative / Performance
Any

Member Overview

"Your situation doesn't make you, it reveals you. Have the courage to stand up, fight for what you love, and never settle for anything less than what you dream for. It doesn't matter where you are, right now is all you have. Today is yours. What are you going to do about that? When you devote yourse...
"Your situation doesn't make you, it reveals you. Have the courage to stand up, fight for what you love, and never settle for anything less than what you dream for. It doesn't matter where you are, right now is all you have. Today is yours. What are you going to do about that? When you devote yourself to achieving your goal, you will not be bothered by shallow criticism. Nothing important can be accomplished if you allow yourself to be swayed by some trifling matter, always looking over your shoulder and wondering what others are saying or thinking. The key to achievement is to move forward along your chosen path with firm determination." rOllerLyfe
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Seeking

True love is our ideal. We desire it, and in our desire we want to possess it. What could be more natural? True love, after all, is the most comforting and beautiful aspect of relationship. Who would not want to possess it? But can you possess true love, and does this involve possessing the pe...
True love is our ideal. We desire it, and in our desire we want to possess it. What could be more natural? True love, after all, is the most comforting and beautiful aspect of relationship. Who would not want to possess it? But can you possess true love, and does this involve possessing the person you love? Or is true love somehow separate from your lover? What is true love? We could say that true love is found on the other side of jealousy. Does that sound about right to you? Of course, if this were a perfect world, we would not even consider jealousy when we think of true love. But we are not perfect. Because we want to possess the beauty of love, we try to possess our lover thinking they are the same. We forget, or maybe we need to learn, that true love is not our lover. True love is the beauty we experience from loving our lover. You cannot possess true love. You can only earn it. And you earn true love by truly loving. How do you do this? You truly love your partner by trusting them — by giving them space to fully develop their potential. True love then is unselfish. It is unconditional, and true love celebrates your lover’s independent growth without the need for you to possess or control. You are confident and happy when your partner discovers new personal power and direction. This is true love. Trust your lover — give them space If you are wondering why you should trust your lover, you might ask yourself why you are in a relationship in the first place. If you are in it to possess comfort, sex, money, security, social or even self-acceptance, then love is not on your agenda. You can safely forget about it and continue on your mutual path of self gratification, possession, and power struggles. But if you are open to finding true unconditional love, the road passes right through the heart of your selfishness, your jealousy, and your possessiveness. It emerges on the opposite side. You have to navigate these base emotions before you can move your relationship onto higher ground. Is it difficult? Well, yes it is, but… If you really care about the person you call your lover, your husband, or your wife, you will want them to achieve. You will want them to realize their best potential, and you will want to give them the space necessary to make that happen. Reminding yourself of this should make it easier. Both you and your partner need space to grow as much as you need air to breathe. Neither of you benefits if you smother one another. Your time apart — these everyday spaces — can be for quiet contemplation, or to enjoy a friend’s company, or perhaps to explore personal directions. This space is the creative vortex, where you as a couple explore life and create through your differences. Growth cannot exist without space? The trust you give one another creates the space you embrace within; entwined but separate beings, loving and living within the small but vital distances between you. How do you give your lover space? Have you and your partner found it difficult to give each other the necessary space to grow as individuals? Do you feel stifled in your relationship? Or have you found your path through the destructiveness of possession and jealously? What did it feel like when you first realized that you truly loved your partner; that you didn’t need to possess them; that instead, you wanted to experience the joy of growing together as individuals? You can give your lover space on many levels. It can be as obvious as physical space, or time space, and it can be as subtle as psychic and emotional space. However you choose to give your partner this space, or in what form you ask your partner for this trust and freedom, know that the space you give or receive is directly proportional to your growth as a couple.
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More About Me

Nathan

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
31
19 - 34
Lives in:
Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Any
Relocate:
Willing to relocate to another country
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Changes frequently
Any
Hair length:
No Answer
Any
Hair type:
No Answer
Any
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Eye wear:
No Answer
Any
Height:
5'11" (181 cm)
Any
Weight:
80 kg (176 lb)
Any
Body style:
Athletic
Any
Ethnicity:
Hispanic / Latino
Any
Facial hair:
No Answer
N/A
Best feature:
No Answer
Any
Body art:
No Answer
Any
Appearance:
Very attractive
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Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Any
Smoke:
Occasionally smoke
Any
Marital Status:
Single
Any
Have children:
No
Any
Number of children:
N/A
Any
Oldest child:
N/A
Any
Youngest child:
N/A
Any
Want (more) children:
Yes
Any
Have pets:
Prefer not to say
Any
Occupation:
Artistic / Creative / Performance
Any
Employment status:
Part Time
Any
Income:
$30,001 - $60,000 USD
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Home type:
House
Any
Living situation:
Live with family
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Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
Puerto Rico
Any
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
Other,English,Italian,Spanish
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Religion:
Christian
Any
Star sign:
Aries
Any

Personal

Bust cup size:
N/A
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Bust:
N/A
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Waist:
N/A
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Hips:
N/A
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